It would be easier to take the unwrapped dark round chocolates sitting over there and just pop em in one by one. But as you can see there's a single chocolate that's wrapped and since I have no clue what's inside that shiny gold little sexy wrapper... I need to find out. Like, what if it's far more satisfying? Is it dark chocolate? Will there be caramel oooozing out? Are there nuts inside? Is it going to have that salty/sweet thing going on? is it creamier? Ugh...so many endless possibilities!! I decide to go with the covered one simply because of the uncertainty. I am wanting MORE! THAT ladies, is how to stand out of a crowd. Contrary to what you think, the more layers, the more mystery, and all the more desirable. Yes I'm referring to modesty. So considering everyone else around you at a club is half naked, you have the chance to really stand out. How? For starters, GET DRESSED! What woman (besides me) doesn't love the whole experience of shopping? Why not spend your money on something that actually fits, and flatters you. I'm not saying one is better than the other. There are different things that empower different women, and it isn't mine or anyone else's place to tell you which one is right or wrong. Modesty can be empowering and so can nudity. But Personally, modesty is what makes me feel empowered as a Woman. As a side note, when a woman is modest, she creates something far more alluring than an overwhelming amount of cleavage. She creates mystery. BUT she won't know the power of it until she uses it and sees it for herself. Mystery is far more appealing and attractive. Do you know why? Because it's mysterious!!
In a world where everyone is so overexposed, the sexiest thing you can do is remain a bit mysterious. A man knows what a naked woman looks like (hopefully). So just another naked woman at the bar bending down to expose herself (and her insecurities) in front of a man isn't going be the woman he'll be taking home to meet mom and dad to for thanksgiving. All of the magazines and media will tell you, "Play hard to get, get into great shape, dress to kill, make him jealous". The answer isn't in cosmos "21 ways". Clearly they haven't figured it out since they're still saying the same things over and over like a broken record except with different models, photographers and layouts.
A woman who has everything to flaunt but chooses not to show it is a woman to admire. As a woman, you've been blessed with a royal crown that is on your head 24/7. You could choose to either wear it everyday or strip yourself of clothes and dignity and blend in with the rest. A woman that walks around flaunting her goods, tells me that she probably doesn't have much else to offer. A man is far more interested, and intrigued by a classy, and elegant sophisticated woman. He wants a woman that respects herself because ultimately, that tells him she has high standards. If she can't respect herself, how could he possibly respect her? It's also a lot more special and sexy for him to know that he will be the only man on this planet that gets to see YOU in your birthday suit. My point here isn't that if you walk around naked you won't get married or find true love. Anyone can get married and anyone can fall in love. A man doesn't define you or your future. The point is that you are a woman! Like the chocolate covered in gold wrapping, you are a gift. Women automatically possess a sensuality and beauty. A wise woman knows how to slowly unravel her layers only one layer at a time which makes her all the more intriguing. THAT is the power of modesty and THAT is the power of a true virtuous, mysterious and wise Naughty Dame!
Written by : Rebekah Garfunkel